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These 55 Gift Ideas Are Perfect No Matter What Stage of the Relationship You’re In

Whether you’ve been on one date or a thousand dates, there’s something here your person will love.

By Brooke Shunatona, Jamie Ballard and Daisy Maldonado
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It's a fact: Finding the right gift for someone isn't always easy. And finding the gift for your special someone can be extra tricky. Like, what if you've only been on one date when Christmas or their birthday rolls around? What if they're like a FWB that's become something more and you're not sure if you should get them something for V-Day or if that's weird? What if you've been together forever and you're just outta good ideas? Don't worry, because I've got gifts for every stage of the relationship right here.

Whether you're searching for the perfect thing for their birthday, an anniversary, Christmas, Valentine's Day, or some other occasion, there's sure to be something here they'll love. From perfect long-distance relationship gifts to thoughtful gifts that you'll also get to enjoy, there are plenty of picks. We've also made sure to include some gift ideas under $30 if you're trying to stick to a budget, along with some more luxe items if you're looking to spoil 'em. No one knows your person like you do, so you decide if you should go with something sweet and sentimental or something so super-useful and practical they'll smile and think of you each time they pick it up.

Without further ado, here are the best gifts for every stage of your relationship.

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This Date Night Bucket List

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This Date Night Bucket List

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Looking to spice up your date nights? This scratch-off poster is full of unique date ideas so your Friday nights never get old.

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A fun, fill-in-the-blank book

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A fun, fill-in-the-blank book

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After years of gift-giving, you might feel stuck when it comes to giving a creative, thoughtful gift. This book is the perfect solution. It gives you plenty of fill-in-the-blank prompts about your favorite person. And hey, you know this is something they don't already have!

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These Matching Bracelets

Tarsus Magnetic Couple Bracelet Set

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These Matching Bracelets

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The perfect gift for a couple in an LDR, these adjustable nylon bracelets with magnetic charms attach when put together and serve as a sweet reminder of your other half when you’re apart.

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This Get-to-Know-You Game

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This Get-to-Know-You Game

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These thought-provoking conversation cards are especially great for when you're still getting to know each other (or if you just want to dig down deeper).

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These Intimate Deck of Cards

BestSelf Co. Intimacy Deck

Intimacy Deck
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These Intimate Deck of Cards

BestSelf Co. Intimacy Deck

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If you're hoping to deepen your ~connection~, let these cards guide your conversation into more meaningful topics.

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These LDR Lamps

FriendshipLamps Long Distance Relationship Lamp

Long Distance Relationship Lamp
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These LDR Lamps

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Not to state the obvious, but long-distance relationships can be harddddd. These lamps, which light up when the other person activates theirs, will make you feel closer together (even if you're not geographically).

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This Stunning Star Chart

OurLoveWasBorn Custom Night Sky Star Map

Custom Night Sky Star Map
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This Stunning Star Chart

OurLoveWasBorn Custom Night Sky Star Map

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Looking for a romantic relationship gift? This star map that captures the constellations on the night you two first met has a strong A Walk to Remember vibe written all over it.

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This Ice-Breaker Game

OUR MOMENTS Our Moments: Conversation-Starting Cards

Our Moments: Conversation-Starting Cards
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This Ice-Breaker Game

OUR MOMENTS Our Moments: Conversation-Starting Cards

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Fill in the blank: The key to a successful relationship is good ____. Get your mind out of the gutter (or keep it there) with these conversation-starting cards.

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This gift for Swifties

celestialwishes Taylor Swift 'Eras' Sweatshirt

Taylor Swift 'Eras' Sweatshirt
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This gift for Swifties

celestialwishes Taylor Swift 'Eras' Sweatshirt

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Even if you lost in the all-out war that was trying to get tickets for Taylor's tour, your favorite Swiftie will still love this sweatshirt showing the different eras of Taylor Swift.

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This bestselling picnic blanket

Scuddles Extra Large Picnic & Outdoor Blanket

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This bestselling picnic blanket

Scuddles Extra Large Picnic & Outdoor Blanket

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Nothing says "let's have a cute picnic date" like this durable blanket. Set it up under the stars for a very romantic evening.

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This drinking game for couples

DRUNK IN LOVE Couples Drinking Game

Couples Drinking Game
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This drinking game for couples

DRUNK IN LOVE Couples Drinking Game

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Whether you've been dating two weeks, two years, or two decades, you can have fun with this drinking game for couples. You'll draw prompts like "Drink if you wear the pants" or "Switch clothes with your partner for three rounds, or drink twice." We see a fun date night in your future with this.

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These mini travel essentials

Pinch Provisions Mini Travel Kit

Mini Travel Kit
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These mini travel essentials

Pinch Provisions Mini Travel Kit

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By gifting this travel essentials kit, you're not not hinting that you should take your first trip together. Cough, cough.

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This portable fireplace

FLIKR Personal Concrete Fireplace

Personal Concrete Fireplace
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This portable fireplace

FLIKR Personal Concrete Fireplace

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This brings all the cozy vibes of a fireplace to their home without, you know, a home renovation project. I see a cute s'mores date night in your future once they unwrap this unique gift.

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This personalized music gift

ARTOPSHK Custom Song Plaque

Custom Song Plaque
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This personalized music gift

ARTOPSHK Custom Song Plaque

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This is *such* a sweet gift idea. You can customize this plaque with a nice pic and a song that's special to your relationship.

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This Pet Portrait

DrawYourPortrait Custom Pet Portrait

Custom Pet Portrait
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This Pet Portrait

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This will win you alllllllll the points. A custom-made portrait of their beloved pet is something that they’ll truly cherish, and it’ll show that you know what really matters to them.

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This Orgasmic Vibrator

Wild Flower Enby 2

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This Orgasmic Vibrator

Wild Flower Enby 2

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The Enby vibrator is an especially great gift if you wanna heat things up. It’s a flexible vibrator that’s meant to be used by people of all genders. So you can hump it, use it to stroke different body parts, put it between you while you’re having sex, use it in tandem with a dildo or other toy — the only limit is your imagination. We foresee a *very* hot date night in your future.

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this pastel accessory

kate spade new york Sadie Small Shoulder Bag

Sadie Small Shoulder Bag
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this pastel accessory

kate spade new york Sadie Small Shoulder Bag

If your babe loves a pop of color, they’ll absolutely swoon over this lilac handbag that's ideal for the spring and summer months. It's got a zip closure, a removable shoulder strap, and a back slip pocket inside.

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These Bestselling Slippers

BRONAX Cloud Slippers

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These Bestselling Slippers

BRONAX Cloud Slippers

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Oh, these? Just one of the most popular gifts of the entire year! I mean, who wouldn't love a super comfortable pair of slippers??

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This Customized Zodiac Pendant

Birthdate Birthdate Pendant

Birthdate Pendant
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This Customized Zodiac Pendant

Birthdate Birthdate Pendant

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Here's a birthday gift they definitely don't have already! Each of these Birthdate pendants has a special arrangement of gemstones based on the recipient's birthday. It makes for a super thoughtful gift they're sure to treasure for a long time.

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These drink tumblers

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These drink tumblers

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Early on in dating, my boyfriend bought me an insulated wine tumbler because of my love of "Wine Walks" which is where I would...take a walk around my neighborhood with a cup of wine. It is also a perfect date idea, so getting yourself a bottle of vino and this set of mugs is sure to lead to a fun night.

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Brooke Shunatona

Brooke Shunatona is a contributing writer for Cosmopolitan.com.

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Contributing Writer

Jamie Ballard (she/her) is a freelance writer and editor who covers news, lifestyle, and entertainment topics, including sex and relationships, TV, movies, books, health, pets, food and drinks, pop culture, shopping, and personal finance. She regularly contributes to Cosmopolitan, Woman’s Day, Good Housekeeping, and YouGov, among other publications. When she’s not working, you can find her running, traveling, or scrolling TikTok. Follow her on Twitter.

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Associate Shopping Editor

Daisy Maldonado is an associate shopping editor at Cosmopolitan who loves writing about fashion trends, must-have beauty products, and digital culture. When she's not writing, you can almost certainly find her shopping (she knows her credit card numbers by heart) or obsessing over celebrity news. Although she’s acquired an extensive closet over the years, her favorite item she owns is a Harry Styles Love On Tour hoodie she purchased at his concert in Manchester. Daisy's work has appeared on Refinery29, The Daily Beast, E! News, Allure and more. Keep up with all of her chaotic travels, NYC life and fashionable moments on her Instagram. 

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