The notoriously unlucky number 13 is actually not as bad as you think it is—especially when it comes to relationships! In fact, the 13th year of marriage is an extra-special one, widely known as the lace anniversary. But what does that even mean and what type of anniversary gift should you give your partner on this momentous occasion? Just keep reading, I gotchu!
It's custom to give lace on the 13th anniversary because the delicate textile represents the intricacy of lasting love and the intertwining of two people's lives over the years. Pretty cute, right? Citrine, the gemstone associated with success, is also a common symbol for the 13th anniversary. It makes sense, too! Because I'd definitely classify being committed to another person for well over a decade as a success.
On my list of the best 13th-anniversary gift ideas, below, you'll find gorgeous lace- and citrine-themed gifts that are perfect for people who like to stick with tradition. If that's not really your style, don't worry, I also included plenty of regular anniversary gifts for every type of partner—including cozy slippers, a wine subscription box, foodie-approved presents, and a luxury candle.
If you’re looking for something sentimental, this star map—which is customized with the coordinates of the place you and your partner first met—is your best bet. Cue the waterworks!
This slip is silky and lace-embellished and all of the things. It's got adjustable straps, plus reviewers say it feels super soft and fits true to size.
Along with lace and citrine, some people also gift chrysanthemum flowers (which are featured in this beautiful bouquet) on their 13th anniversary because they symbolize love, happiness, and longevity.
You can't go wrong with gifting pretty lingerie on your anniversary, and this one is especially appropriate for the 13th year because it's covered in floral lace. It also features a breathable mesh back and provides support without feeling uncomfortable.
Wine is always a good idea. This subscription service will deliver a curated selection of four bottles to their doorstep every month for just $119 (or eight bottles per month for $218).
Preserve 13 years of memories in one place with this softcover photo book. It’s sweet and sentimental and makes for the perfect coffee table accessory!
If you want to plan a romantic trip or extra-special date but don't have the time or money to do so on your actual anniversary, these coupon codes will suffice until you can make it happen.
Hanna Flanagan is an associate shopping editor at Cosmopolitan, sharing her recommendations for everything from denim and eye creams to coffee mugs and silk sheets. Before joining Cosmopolitan, she wrote fashion, beauty, and lifestyle content at People (so, yes, she’s basically a professional product tester at this point). Follow her on Instagram for photos of Timothée Chalamet and #OOTD mirror pics.