11 Spring Sex Positions That Will (Finally!) Heat Up Your Sex Life
Winter is over—remove thy sweatpants!
Good news for anyone who hasn’t seen the sun since November: Spring is here! That means it’s time to get outside and re-embrace the sexy side of you that’s been hiding under 100 layers all winter. And no, we’re not being dramatic. The warmer weather really does work wonders on your libido.
“When it gets sunnier, people are naturally in a better mood and are more apt to leave the house, socialize, and wear skimpier clothes,” says resident sexologist for the erotic ethical porn site FrolicMe, Suzannah Weiss. “The longer days make us want to stay out later, and those warm days just might turn into steamy nights.”
Cash in on the vitamin D (heh) by going outside and enjoying experiences that feel sexy as hell, without being overtly sexual, if you catch our drift. (Sex in public is still illegal, y’all!) “Maybe that’ the feel of the grass against your feet or the sand against your legs, or the thrill of your skirt blowing in the wind when you're not wearing underwear,” says Weiss.
Once you feel like yourself again (read: once you’ve let the sun revive your cold body), grab your partner and suggest some (naked) (not illegal) outdoor adventures. Head to the forest for some camping sex or dabble in temperature play, for example. When it’s inevitably time to cool off—because you definitely broke a sweat—try running ice cubes or cold drops of water down your partner’s body. “You can also use your tongue to gently lick off the water and bring a warm sensation back into the mix,” suggests certified sexologist Rebecca Alvarez Story, founder of Bloomi. “Go back and forth between ice and tongue.”
Want more spring sex inspo? Look no further. Next, 11 of our favorite spring sex positions to really help you celebrate the season.
The Wet Dog
“Try doggy style in the shower after you've been outside over the course of a hot day and want to cool off,” says Weiss. This one’s pretty easy to execute. Just like you would in regular doggy, the receiving partner stands up in the shower and leans against the wall with their knees slightly bent, while the penetrating partner enters them from behind. If you’re the penetrating partner, Weiss suggests reaching around to play with your partner’s clit or nipples. Pro tip: Use silicone lube for shower sex so it lasts without washing away in two seconds. Contrary to popular belief: Sex in water does not equal more lubrication!
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The Watch Dog
If you’re into the more ~risqué~, try another version of standing doggy: against a window. “Enjoy the beautiful scenery outside while using the windowsill to support you while indulging your exhibitionist side,” says Weiss. “Both people get a nice view of some sort!” If you want more stimulation, a vibrating penis ring is a great add. (FWIW, this is not a first-floor apartment rec.)
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The Black Bee
Weiss recommends borrowing this Kama Sutra classic. “The penetrating partner is in a half-seated, half-lying-down position (their torso is at a 45-degree angle to the bed, so yes, implement some pillows or a headboard to support your back), the receiving partner squats on top of them with their feet on the bed in front of them, and they move their hips in a circular position,” says Weiss. It’s a very athletic position, so if you’re the one on top and need some motivation, hand your partner a wand vibrator to use on you.
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The Tame Your Lion
Tame or be tamed with a sexy variant on the cat-cow yoga position. “One partner gets on all fours arching their back up into a cat-curl yoga position. The other partner approaches from behind, wrapping a scarf, tie, pillowcase, or any other long piece of cloth around their lover’s waist. They can pull them close and control the rhythm as they tame their lion,” says resident sexologist at Astroglide, Jess O’Reilly, PhD. Purring/roaring optional
The Ice Cream Sundae
Give your partner a taste of you by straddling them and offering yourself for a sampling. “Lean your head onto either side of theirs, giving them access to your neck for kissing, licking, and more,” says Casey Tanner, certified sex therapist and sexpert for Lelo. “Their hands are free to explore your hips, chest, clitoris, and other erogenous zones, even while having penetrative sex from this position.” Want to add toys? If your partner has a vulva, try a vibrating strapless strap-on. Penis? Try a vibrating cock ring.
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The Spring Surprise
Flirt with a little danger by sneaking outside at night. “The balcony offers the perfect balance of both privacy and risk; you can always slip inside if you feel there may be eyes on you, but if you keep the lights and volume down low, no one will be the wiser,” O’Reilly says. “Lie down on a towel or mat so that no one can see what you’re up to.” A face-to-face position allows eye contact and the ability to signal if you suddenly need to bail. (Friendly reminder: Stay on your own property, please!)
The Pool(ish) Sex
If you dig the idea of pool sex but not the bits about possible waterborne weirdness getting inside you, just get next to the pool. One of you sits at the edge with your legs draped into the water, and the other is in the pool, conveniently located for all things oral.
The Hedge Clippers
If you want deep penetration and a variety of stimulation, lie on your back with your hips at the edge of the bed and your legs straight up. Your partner enters standing at the edge of the bed (use pillows to get your hips at penis/strap-on height). They then hold your ankles to open and close your legs, either thrust by thrust or more of a freestyle rhythm. Use your hand or a toy on your clit, too
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The Easy Up
Your partner sits cross-legged, leaning back on their hands. You get on your knees and straddle them. Hold on to their shoulders and ride away. It has the usual advantages of being on top (more control, looking sexy as hell) but is a little easier because you have shoulders to hold on to. This works with a strap-on or penis, or you can use a flexible double-headed vibrator.
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The Sexed-Up Bridge
The bridge position from yoga is way more interesting if you add sex. To get there: Lie on your back with your knees bent and feet on the mattress. Raise just your hips, keeping your shoulders on the bed. From here, your partner can kneel for penetration (just make sure they’re not too rigorous so you don’t get hurt) or they can sit under your legs, put your legs over their shoulders, and commence kissing your clit.
The Sex on the Beach
No beach and no pool? Get yourself an inflatable pool and have at it. You can squirt lube, bodily fluids, whatever you want all over the place—just dump and clean after. Top recommendation: Get a waterproof vibrator. Hand it to your partner and lean back.
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Jill Hamilton is a contributor for Cosmopolitan.com and writes the blog In Bed With Married Women.
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