11 Extremely Hot Boob Sex Positions to Try ASAP
Because you can both agree on one thing: Your boobs are amazing.
Boob sex positions—*cue “My Humps” by the Black Eyed Peas*—are so much more than the basic “t*tty f*ck” you’re probably envisioning. Don’t get me wrong, peen-between-boobs is great, but there is so much more to boob sex, and you deserve to enjoy it all.
“Boob play is pleasing for everyone involved,” says sex and relationships expert for Mega Pleasure, Charlotte Johnson. “When done correctly and with the right person (as not everyone will love breast play), it can be a brilliant addition to your sex life.”
Think about it: Breasts can be kissed, licked, squeezed, lubed up and massaged and/or lightly bitten. And they’re not just fun—they can also be a crucial part of pleasure. “For some women, breast and nipple play are essential to help them achieve orgasm,” says owner of Femina Physical Therapy, Heather Jeffcoat, DPT. “The breasts and nipples are highly erogenous areas that have been shown to light up the parts of the brain that were previously thought to belong just to the vagina, clitoris and cervix called the genitosensory cortex.” (Which explains how some people can have a nipplegasm—they’re firing up that sexy, sexy genitosenory cortex.)
Don’t know where to start? Go slow. “The nipples (and any other erogenous zones) need to be warmed up, so take your time,” says Johnson. “One person might like to be lightly bitten, but another may find that painful. If you don’t know how to play with them, then the simple way is just to ask your partner,” says Johnson.
Here’s what else you need to know about all things boob sex. (Take notes, trust me.)
You Don’t Have to Have Breasts to Enjoy Nipple Action
Breasts or no breasts, nips are still sensitive erogenous zones! “Regardless of your gender, explore some nipple play. Keep in mind, the only function of nipples in men is to experience pleasure!” says sex expert for Keepler, Niki Davis-Fainbloom.
Your Results May Vary
Experiment to see what you and your partner like. “Some prefer a light graze or tickle when engaging in breast play, and others prefer a rougher touch or bite. The best way to learn the type of play you enjoy is through exploration with clear communication with your partner,” says Davis-Fainbloom.
Boobs Can Be a Visual Turn-On. Embrace It!
If the words “too big” or "too small" have ever crossed your mind, look in the mirror and remind yourself that you’re literally perfect, mkay? No two pairs of boobs (and often, no two boobs period—they’re often sisters, not twins!) were created equal, and that’s the point–everyone’s look different, and they're all beautiful. So don’t let any insecurities get in the way of you (and your partner!) enjoying your tatas. (And if you need some bra recs, here are some for the bigand the small.)
Your Menstrual Cycle Might Impact Sensations
If you menstruate, sensations may vary. “Your breasts will experience pleasure differently depending on your point in your cycle,” says Davis-Fainbloom. “For example, breasts are more sensitive during the fertile window, and after ovulation, they may become fuller and more tender to touch. As a result, you may be craving a type of breast play during ovulation that would feel uncomfortable a few days later.”
Now that you’re caught up on the boob basics, here are some super-hot boob sex positions to try next time you’re ready to give them some well-deserved attention.
The Caboose
If you or your partner want to really focus on the feeling of your breasts, remove the sense of the sight from the equation with a seated spoon position. “Your mind can run wild because you can’t see each other,” says Johnson. “One partner sits on the bed or chair and the other backs themselves onto their lap. Spoon each other while seated. It gives your partner an easy option to wrap their arms around you and give your breasts the attention they deserve.” Add a vibrating penis ring for penetration or go off-label and use it as hand vibe for deep rumbly clit stim.
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The Buzz Worthy
“This is a position perfect for those who want to focus on their breasts and other erogenous zones at the same time,” says Johnson. Lie back with your legs resting on your partner’s shoulders and let the games begin. (This works if you’re alone too—just put your legs wherever you want.) “It can be helpful to add some vibrating nipple clamps into the mix with this as well, giving you the option to use your hand for stimulating your clitoris if you want.” Which would be a yes.
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The Low Backbend
Feeling excessively flexible? Have your partner lie on their back and straddle them, facing their feet (reverse cowgirl style). Lean back slowly until you're flat against their chest. Not gonna happen? “If you’re not very flexible, then you can try this position sitting up,” says Johnson. “Your partner can give each boob all the love they need.” If you’re adding penetration, your clit is going to be far, far away from what’s going down, so add a long vibrator for easy access.
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The Yab Yum
Into boob sucking? The classic tantric Yab Yum position puts you where you want to be. “The face-to-face seated position where both partners are facing each other allows for easy breast action! It's easy to rub up against your partner’s chest or mouth for some nipple licking or nibbling,” says Rachel Needle, a licensed psychologist and the co-director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes. Further the soulful vibe with some luxe CBD lube.
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The Orgasm Generator
You’re going to need an armchair for this one, but pls, make sure it’s sturdy. “The penetrating partner sits in an armchair, and the person being penetrated sits on top facing and straddling their lover with their legs on the arms of the armchair. This allows the top partner’s chest to be facing their lover and makes it easily accessible for nipple play,” says Marla Renee Stewart, MA, sexpert for Lovers sexual wellness brand and retailer.
The Princess Pose
“It’s the same as the cowgirl, but instead of a person being on their knees while riding on top, you place your feet on the ground or bed. This position allows you to use your feet for leverage and you can lean forward moving your breasts toward your lover,” says Stewart. If your partner presses a vibrator against you, all the better.
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The Boob Off
Lie on your sides facing one another. Fondle one another between your legs with one hand while playing with one another’s nipples with the other,” says Jess O’Reilly, PhD, sex expert at Astroglide. If you want to super-focus on boobs, have a toy handle things down below.
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The Titillating Tease
Climb on top and assume the cowgirl position, freeing up your hands to stimulate yourself. Not only are you on top of your partner and riding them, which is bloody well good enough, but they can enjoy the endlessly fascinating activity of watching your boobs bounce. Lick a finger and swirl it over your nipple, cup them and lift them up, or just let them bob up and down. Pretty much anything you do here is golden.
The Golden Globes
Take control by pushing their legs apart with your knees. Lie on top of them, sort of like reverse missionary, pressing your legs together and grinding and wiggling against them—you'll feel every inch of them more fully. If you can hold a decent plank, let your boobs hover enticingly over them, dipping down to give them a taste every once in a while. Otherwise, rest on your elbows, letting them mouth you as they please.
The Ta-Ta Tease
Some people love boobs so much, they literally want to make love to them. Lie back, use a ton of lube, push your boobs together, and let them go to town in what is essentially the classic titty f*ck. This isn't going to do much for the boob-owner, stimulation-wise, so you can also have them push 'em together while you slide a hand down to attend to yourself. If you're both into it, let them finish on your chest.
The Upright Titty F*ck
Kneel in front of them, lube them up, and press your boobs together, sliding up and down their penis or dildo. Mix it up by alternating boobs with hands and mouth. To blow their mind (as well as what you're already blowing), stroke them with your boobs, then put the tip in your mouth on each upstroke while gazing at them lustfully. Revel in your power as you watch them lose it.
Jill Hamilton is a contributor for Cosmopolitan.com and writes the blog In Bed With Married Women.
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