11 Spicy Fall Sex Positions to Heat Up Your Bed Game

Vulva owners will love the Sidewalk Sweep. In this version of oral—which is delightful year-round, TYVM—the giver puts their mouth over the receiver’s vulva and applies a little bit of suction. The giver sweeps their head side-to-side, gently sucking and keeping the suction going. Tart it up with flicks of the tongue and/or a lubey finger or glass dildo stroking the upper wall of the vagina.

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Sensation play is great for focusing everyone’s attention on exactly what’s going down. Have your partner lie flat on their back with their eyes closed. Try to engage each of their senses one at a time. Fire up a scented candle, whisper something incredibly filthy/romantic in their ear, smear a little pumpkin pie on their lips and let them lick it off. Trail a seasonal scarf up their thighs and over their chest. The idea is to keep them hyper-focused on your every move. End by drizzling a warming lube on their penis/vulva (warming lube can be kind of a love/hate thing, so make sure you ask for consent first!) and straddling them to ride yourselves to orgasm.

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Okay, stay with us here for this one. “The penis-owner or person with a strap-on sits on the floor with legs forward and feet on the sofa” says Payne. “The partner then lowers their body gently on top and puts their legs on their partner’s shoulders (forming a V shape). Pull up another sofa, so that both of you are leaning against a sofa with your backs. You bring both your hands up to hold, and as you’re moving, you swing backwards and forwards to make it look like the ‘leaf’ is blowing in the wind.”

“Re-visit spooning with a vibrator,” says sex and love coach Lorrae Bradbury, founder of Slutty Girl Problems and host of the Pleasure Provocateur podcast. “Spooning position, especially with the receiver’s legs opened wider or even wrapped behind their partner’s legs behind them, gives amazing access to the clit."

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Might as well remove the clothes and make a night of it. Guide your partner in with your hand and hook your upper leg back and around their butt, pressing them deeper into you. They can hold onto your boobs, reach down between your legs or just hug you close. Look back at them over your shoulder so they can see your face as you orgasm.

This is the perfect combination of a hug and the very sweetest bang you will ever have. Lie on your sides, facing each other. Go in for the hug, then hook your leg up and over their hips, taking the hug in a whole different direction. Move slowly and rock against them, kissing each other deeply and feeling damn lucky to be exactly where you are.

Have them sit on the edge the bed and straddle them. Keeping them inside, lean waaaay back with your head lowered toward the floor. Hold onto their hands 'cause it's intimate, but also to keep your balance. They get a graphic view that they'll love and you get to feel them pressing hard against your upper V at a tricked out angle. Kind of challenging, but worth it for the head rush/swoony feeling.

Without a doubt, firelight is the most flattering light there ever was. Make it even better by fashioning a fire-side makeshift bed of silky sheets, soft pillows (washable, definitely) and thick, soft blankets. Get facedown on said love nest, with your knees bent, and legs open. Prop your hips up on one of those pillows. They come in from behind (or...really behind, if you're feeling anal-y) lying on top of you so they're free to kiss your neck and whisper hot/dirty/lovey things in your ear.