If you have a penis in front of your mouth and are wondering what to do, here's some secret wisdom from experts on how to give a truly stellar BJ. (Caveat: every penis is different, so assess and revise as necessary.)
Get handsy.
“Anything you can do with your mouth and tongue, you can do with your hands, with greater flexibility and dexterity,” says Jess O’Reilly, PhD, Resident Sexologist at Astroglide. Play with their balls, stroke their shaft with two hands, press your thumb onto their perineum (the area between their balls and anus) as they are having an orgasm.
Moisturize!
“No one likes dry rub and friction during a blow job, so make sure that you use moist saliva or have edible lube on hand to help you easily slide your mouth up, down, and around him,” says Alex Etienam, a sex counselor who specializes in sex therapy for transgender individuals and couples.
Google “frenulum.”
“Appreciate the frenulum. The frenulum is the most sensitive part along with the head of the cock so give those parts attention by flicking your tongue,” says Etienam.
Try the “granny mouth.”
“Pull your lips into your mouth. This creates a tight suction feel as you move up and down,” says Kay Johnson, Founder of Let's Get Kinky.
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Jill Hamilton is a contributor for Cosmopolitan.com and writes the blog In Bed With Married Women.
