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40 of the Most Dramatic Reality TV Feuds *Ever*

If you're not flipping tables or stealing wedding vibes (or wedding countries...), are you even a reality star?

By The Editors
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At this point, the only guilt we, the people, should feel about watching reality shows is when we miss a night of iconic television in favor of, like, hanging out with real people. We're truly living in the golden age of reality TV, with shows that simply won't stop giving. I mean, Bravo is genuinely ~The Little Engine That Could~ when it comes to churning out drama, stoically firing up their cameras when they're not even in season just to give us the content we crave—and the Kardashians are on another level when it comes to their new aesthetic on Hulu. It's not not cinema!

But obviously the real treasures of any given reality show are the friends feuds we made witness along the way—many of which seem to have Lisa Rinna at the heart of them, but we'll get to that in a minute. While the number of fights we've seen on fave shows, like Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, Southern Charm, Summer House, Real Housewives of Potomac, The Hills, Vanderpump Rules, and Keeping Up with the Kardashians reach numbers that I, personally, cannot count to, we've rounded up 40 classic reality show feuds that have taken up permanent residency in our brains. Like...if you don't remember where you were when you heard the words "You stole my goddamn house, Kyle," you simply haven't lived.

On that dramatic note, here's an appropriately dramatic roundup.

1

Countess Luann and Alex McCord: 'RHOBH'

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Countess Luann and Alex "Lives in Brooklyn" McCord had drama throughout Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, but their most iconic showdown came when Luann insulted Alex's Louis Vuitton shoes with this fourth-degree burn: "Even Louis Vuitton makes mistakes."

2

Ashley Jacobs and Kathryn Dennis: 'Southern Charm'

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On top of calling Kathryn an "egg donor," Ashley said Kathryn's kids with Thomas Ravenel (who Kathryn was dating at the time) "weren't planned on" during an absolutely explosive fight. Hard to come back from that, tbh.

3

Bethenny Frankel and Jill Zarin: 'RHONY'

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Despite starting Real Housewives of New York as close friends, Bethenny and Jill had a huge blowout in season three, when Bethenny infamously told Jill to "get a hobby." Jill went on to call Bethenny a "nobody" who "couldn't sell a cupcake in a grocery store."

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Bethenny Frankel and Kelly Bensimon: 'RHONY'

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Bethenny and Kelly never got along on RHONY, but things reached their peak when, during "Scary Island," Kelly said, "She's not a chef, she's a cook," and claimed Bethenny was "trying to kill her." Bethenny, meanwhile, called Kelly "cuckoo for cocoa puffs" and screamed "GO TO SLEEP."

5

Blac Chyna and the Kardashians: 'The Kardashians'

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I mean, anyone else remember when Blac Chyna sued the Kardashians for defamation and for interfering with her reality TV contract? Truly wild times, which were inevitably covered on The Kardashians in a truly meta moment.

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Gizelle Bryant and Candiace Dillard Bassett: 'RHOP'

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Things blew up between these two during Real Housewives of Potomac season seven, when Gizelle implied on camera that Candiace's husband made her uncomfortable during a private convo. When Gizelle brought up her concerns with Candiace, Candiace walked off camera and said, "If it's going to be about maligning my fucking husband, you don't want me here."

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Candiace Dillard Bassett and Monique Samuels: 'RHOP'

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Candiace and Monique's friendship blew up a when Monique claimed Candiace was spreading rumors about her love life (specifically, a rumor that Monique was sleeping with her trainer) and things got physical. As in, they had a straight-up physical fight on camera.

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Lindsay Hubbard and Danielle Olivera: 'Summer House'

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This feud reached its deranged peak when Carl planned his proposal to Lindsay and made the mistake of not giving Danielle a heads up, which she took....extremely personally. Like...weeping all over the house in dismay, could barely pretend to be happy at the engagement party...personally.

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Lauren Conrad and Heidi Montag: 'The Hills'

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I mean, I think we all know what Lauren and Heidi's feud was about. The man, the myth, the hummingbird-loving, crystal collecting legend that is Spencer Pratt. And who could possibly forget the exact words Lauren is shouting here? ("YOU KNOW WHAT YOU DID!")

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10

James Kennedy vs The Toms: 'Vanderpump Rules'

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Vibes between James Kennedy and Tom Schwartz got super tense, thanks to Schwartz kissing James's ex, Raquel Leviss, in Vegas—but James really lost it with the Toms during Scandoval. And when we say "lost it," we mean he called Tom a "poo poo head" and a "worm with a mustache." Not even Shakespeare could come up with that prose!

11

Lauren Conrad and Kristin Cavallari: 'Laguna Beach'

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For the most part, Lauren and Kristin's drama was about–what else?—a guy. (I mean, they were rival high school popular girls, after all.) And not just any guy. THE Stephen Colletti. (I should note that they did squash their beef–and even exchanged apologies!—on Kristin and Stephen's Back to the Beach podcast in 2022.)

12

Taylor Swift and Kim Kardashian: 'KUWTK'

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Yes, I am aware that Taylor Swift isn't on, nor has she ever been on, Keeping Up with the Kardashians. But her feud with Kim (which was really about her feud with Kanye, let's be honest) occupied *several* episodes and, therefore, counts. Leave it up to Tay to be the main character even when she's not even on a show!

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Kim Kardashian and Kourtney Kardashian: 'KUWTK'

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I mean, for starters, Kim told Kourt she's the "least interesting to look at." But who could forget when they got into a physical brawl and they left a foundation stain on poor Khloé's wall?

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Kim Kardashian and Kourtney Kardashian Again: 'The Kardashians'

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Kim and Kourtney's most recent feud involves Kourtney accusing Kim of stealing her ~wedding vibes~ by doing a collection with Dolce & Gabbana? Followed by Kim saying that Kourt stole her "wedding country." I...want to relate, but...I simply cannot.

15

Lisa Vanderpump and Kyle Richards: 'RHOBH'

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Lisa and Kyle were friends for a full decade, but everything changed when Kyle accused Lisa of leaking a story to the press, saying Dorit's adopted dog had ended up at a kill shelter. Lisa—who was dubbed a "puppet master"—couldn't get over the betrayal and left the show. Also, we can't forget Ken yelling “GOODBYE KYLE” while holding the no-longer-living legend known as Giggy.

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Teresa Giudice and Melissa Gorga: 'RHONJ'

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Truly shocked that it's taken us this long to arrive at Real Housewives of New Jersey, but here we are! For the uninitiated, Teresa and Melissa are sisters-in-law (Melissa is married to Teresa's brother, Joe Gorga), and they've been beefing for years. Over the seasons, Teresa has accused Melissa of being a "gold digger," speculated about her being a former stripper, and excluded Melissa from her wedding party. Meanwhile, Melissa didn't attend Teresa's wedding or send a gift. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie: 'The Simple Life'

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Paris and Nicole had major drama in 2005, and the rumor was that Nicole had screened Paris's sex tape at a party. But they got over it and are currently relationship status: sliving.

18

Snooki and Angelina: 'Jersey Shore'

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We'd be here forever if we detailed every Jersey Shore feud, but as far as this one goes: TLDR, Snooki called Angelina "sloppy seconds" when she hooked up with Vinny Guadagnino and then they had a physical fight that led to Angelina leaving the show. They eventually made up, only to have the vibes once again killed when Snooki gave an infamous bridesmaid speech with Jwoww, calling Angelina "the fly to our sh*t" and "the throw-up to our hangover."

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Teresa Giudice and Danielle Staub: 'RHONY'

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Let's see! During season one, Teresa flipped a table and called Danielle a "prostitution whore." They somehow managed to make up and become friends after this, but things got dramatic again when Teresa freaked out at Danielle for revealing that Teresa had told her to pull Margaret Joseph's ponytail.

P.S. I realize the past few sentences have been...a lot...but legitimately, there's no other way to describe it.

20

Kim Richards and Kyle Richards: 'RHOBH'

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I mean, they're sisters, so it's complicated, but nothing beats Kim and Kyle's blowout fight in the limo, wherein Kim screamed, "You stole my goddamn house, Kyle." Which, you can buy written a shirt over on Etsy if you're feeling inspired.

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